When will my opinions matter?

When will I stop being treated like a baby? When will I be to miss family events so I can earn money, without my family making me feel guilty, I was nevertheless allowed to make my own decisions. When will I be treated like my feelings matter, when will people look from my point of view and how I feel! No one has really ever stood up for me or I was never allowed to have boundaries in my own immediate family. I really hate being the youngest child!